Bud & Rasheeda said Yes!
We’re Engaged!
Our Story
Bud and Rasheeda met in 2009 at The University of North Carolina at Greensboro, Rasheeda was a freshman and Bud was a sophomore. They stayed in the same dormitory hall (Cone Hall) on the same floor (8th floor). Somehow they just kept running into one another but never said anything in person.
Eventually, Rasheeda had one of her friends to send Bud a message on Facebook telling him “ she thought he was cute!” From that message came a friendship that led to a relationship. A relationship that introduced two soulmates to form together to have this marriage.
Nov 23rd, 2018, We Said Yes!
Rasheeda thought she was out for a causal dinner with a long time friend, Bud was supposed to be in Greensboro, N.C. celebrating his father’s birthday. To Rasheeda’s surprise, while eating dinner at Ruth Chris in Charlotte, NC, Bud sent flowers to the table and then came out to propose while Rasheeda was reading a handwritten love note sent with the flowers. It was totally unexpected and beautiful. Oh yeah, of course Rasheeda said yes!!!
About Rasheeda
Rasheeda is a Charlotte, NC native born to the late Elizabeth Ann Howie and Jimmy Bernard Simmons. Rasheeda is a recent graduate from Johnson C. Smith University where she received her Masters in Social Work. Currently, Rasheeda is a Social Worker in the Emergency Department at Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center.
Rasheeda is a true definition of a homebody and enjoys being home doing absolutely nothing! Rasheeda enjoys going out to eat, watching thriller/horror movies, and spending time with her family.
About Bud
Bud is a Thomasville, NC native, born to Stanford Ray Sr. and Deborah Rice. Bud is more outgoing and enjoys spending time with his family also; he has six sisters and is the only boy. Prior to attending UNCG and meeting his soon to be bride, Bud played football for Lenior Rhyne Bears in Hickory, NC. Needless to say, Bud is a man cave/sports fanatic type of guy.
Bud is pursuing a degree in logistics and currently works for the second largest paint manufacture in the world, Akzo Nobel.
Gallery
The Reception
The Orchid Banquet Hall
521 Little Rock Rd, Charlotte, NC 28214
Parking is available at the venue
Accomadations
Here is the online booking link for reservations; the group info is filled in, guests need to select dates. Reservations can also be phoned into 1-800-465-4329; the block is titled Forever and a Ray and the block code is FOR. If you have any issues please contact Ashley Stout at 704-972-3262.
Registry
The Groom and Bride are registered at Amazon.com under: Stanford Ray Jr and Rasheeda Howie
Attire
Formal Attire
Ceremony
October 10th, 2020
The ceremony Begins @ 4pm
Please Arrive 20min beforehand
Wedding Party
Click Here to see
Weather
Registry
FAQ
Can I take photos or stream your ceremony, live on social media?
No, we are having an unplugged ceremony and will have a professional photographer/ videographer who will capture this special moment.
We have one plea. Please keep our ceremony camera-free.
Through our I do’s are unplugged, our reception is not.
Once vows are exchanged, you’re free to take a shot!
What time should I arrive?
The ceremony is scheduled to start a 4:00 p.m., we request everyone to arrive 15 to 20 minutes before. Unfortunately, once the doors are shut we will not be allowed to let anyone in.
Is there a dress code?
Yes, the bride and groom are requesting all the guest to be in formal attire. However, we want you to feel comfortable but absolutely no jeans!
How do I RSVP
To RSVP, scroll all the way to the bottom of the home page on the website. You will then see the RSVP section, which will ask for: Your name, email address, and whether or not you will be attending. Once the information has been entered, hit submit, and you’re all set! You will need to complete an RSVP for every guest who plans to attend.
Are kids allowed?
Unfortunately, the answer is no. We love your kids – we truly do, but we want our wedding to also be your night off to enjoy this adults-only evening.
Will there be a reception?
Yes, the reception will start roughly around 6:00pm (cocktail hour is from 5:00p-6:00p) and go until 11:00pm.
How are the Bride and Groom preparing for COVID-19?
During the wedding ceremony, all guest will be required to wear a face mask and everyone’s temperature will be taken prior to entry. The Bride and Groom will assign seats at both the wedding ceremony and reception and will group family members who stay in the same household or who have had contact with one another during the COVID-19 crisis. At the reception venue tables will be spaced out by 6 feet, however the dance floor will be open to everyone and mask will be optional. The Bride and Groom trust that all family members and close friends will stay home if they are not feeling well or have had any recent exposure to the virus.
Do you have any hotel recommendations?
Yes, The Holiday Inn Charlotte Airport. This is the location of the ceremony and is only 3 miles away from the reception venue.
Holiday Inn Charlotte Airport
2707 Little Rock Rd.
Charlotte, NC 28214
Tel: 704-394-4301
Can I bring a date?
When you receive your invitation, it will display the number of guest you are allowed to bring. If you do not see the option for a plus one, then unfortunately you will not be allowed a date.
Do you have a hashtag for photos we post to social media?
Yes! Please use #foreverandaray so we can easily find any photos you share!
When’s the deadline to RSVP?
The deadline to RSVP is Saturday, September 19, 2020. After that, the RSVP section will be closed and we will not accept any more RSVPs. This is so we can have an accurate head-count for the venue and caterer in time for the big day.
I have a question, but don’t see an answer for it here. What should I do?
Information can be found either on the invitation itself or by browsing this site. If you still cannot find an answer to your question, then feel free to send an email to Foreverandaray2020@yahoo.com or you can always contact the bride or groom directly
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We Can’t Wait To Celebrate With You!
We're Tying The Knot on October 10th in Charlotte, NC